Super Mario Super Baby Shower

March 1st, 2012

Few things in life start out more fun than planning a baby shower.

Especially when the entire event is forced on the expectant parents-to-be because they’re painfully shy and loathe being the center of attention (to the extent that they eloped and got married in front of five friends on a cruise ship in the middle of the ocean).

But while we accepted the tiny wedding and obliged the requests to skip a traditional wedding shower and bachelor/bachelorette parties, we could not allow them to skip over a baby shower in honor of their firstborn.

First lesson of parenthood: You don’t turn down free stuff. Ever.

So with the wishes of the happy couple decidedly pushed aside, we jumped headfirst into planning an uber-trendy soiree featuring an oh-so-hip-and-Pinteresty yellow and gray bumble bee theme. We were up to our eyeballs in bumble bee stickers, yellow napkins, black plates and adorable invitations when it suddenly occurred to us that we had made a terrible mistake.

Our guests of honor are not uber-trendy soiree kind of people.

This is the couple who decided to make their daughter’s nursery theme chemistry & astronomy. The couple who met online, who both work in computer programming, who have shelves filled with books by Carl Sagan, H.G. Wells and Douglas Adams. The couple who spend their spare time playing video games and watching Discovery channel.

In short, this baby shower was being thrown for a couple of adorkable geeks.

So six weeks shy of our shower date, we changed the entire theme.

Enter: The Super Mario Super Shower.

As soon as we changed the theme, ideas started flowing like the waterfalls on Yoshi’s Island. Mustaches, mushrooms, rainbows and Italian food became the centerpieces of our event for 30 of the couple’s family and friends (because women-only baby showers are for Mad Men, it’s 2012, everyone should be involved in the celebration!)

Our main table featured the diaper cake (created with fantastic attention to detail by my friend Tori who so included not only diapers, but fun hairbands and hair clips for the baby as well), mushroom cupcakes, chocolate mustache pops and a few other desserts.

(More pictures under the cut!)

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Centerpieces, table settings and candles — oh my!

February 10th, 2012

I’m a woman with many hobbies.

This is mostly attributable to my lack of a social life and my very (very) short attention span. I go through these phases where I pillage Michael’s and Hobby Lobby for supplies only to go home and get halfway through a project before I shove the remnants in my closet with a promise to resume my progress at a later date.

But recently I’ve taken up a new hobby that might have some staying power on my list of long term interests (right next to writing, snowglobe collecting and movies about baseball).

I’ve always had a knack for special event decor, but it’s been fueled as of late by too many episodes of My Fair Wedding with David Tutera and the planning of a baby shower for my Duolit co-founder, Toni. It occurred to me that I have some knowledge about not only creating great pieces for events, but designing on a (writer’s) limited budget.

So if you’ll indulge me, I’ll be adding some ideas (and lots of photos) to share my successes and failures with this new found hobby.

(And if my ADD kicks in, just disregard this post and resume your normal daily activities, I promise I’ll resume my progress at a later date…)

An evening with The Civil Wars

February 2nd, 2012

Confession: I’m becoming a little bit of a folkaholic.

What kind of horribly debilitating disease is that, you ask? Why it’s the kind where a person becomes unable to enjoy any other kind of music except the sweet harmonies and soulful melodies of contemporary folk music.

It started with Ray LaMontagne and has blossomed into a loving obsession with all thinks folk-y including (but not limited to) Mumford & Sons, Swell Season, Amos Lee and the duo of John Paul White and Joy Williams more commonly known as The Civil Wars.

iPhones are miserable at capturing indoor images in poor light, but trust me that's The Civil Wars.

Don’t let their recent association with Taylor Swift and The Hunger Games fool you — these two musicians are the genuine artifact. They are true artists with their beautifully blended voices and perfect mix of Southern Rock, Appalachian hymns and folksy blues. Swift is the crown princess of country music, but she’s using her powers for good to introduce her lesser known (but incredibly talented) Nashville counterparts to a new generation of music fans.

(I wish the boybands I was obsessed with liked as a teenager had made an effort to extend my musical interests to new artists with powerful talent. I guess *NSYNC inadvertently did this with their fellow MMC alum and old tour partner Tony Lucca [now a contestant on The Voice] but they weren’t pulling him onto popular soundtracks and blasting his praises to their fans. Of course they didn’t have Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, Google + or MySpace back then either…)

At any rate, The Civil Wars grabbed my attention with “Poison & Wine” and held it from start to finish on their first album, “Barton Hollow” (pronounced Barton “Holler” for you non-Southerners). When I heard they were coming to the recently renovated, 900 seat Ponte Vedra Concert Hall I couldn’t get to Ticketmaster’s website fast enough.

The show did not disappoint from the opening act (The Bellow–more on them later) to The Civil Wars’ covers of Smashing Pumpkins’ “Disarm” and Michael Jackson’s “Billie Jean.” I didn’t think it was possible for them to be better in person, but their stripped down, acoustic vibe in that old church with the wood beams and cathedral ceilings was spectacular.

(A respectfully quiet crowd also made it an excellent show, save for the girl in front of us who sang along to the first few songs until someone kindly informed her that no one in the theater paid to hear her sing. This is why I’m not sure I could ever see Adele in concert.)

Their personalities also shined in their charming banter — even when John Paul responded to someone’s request for “Freebird” by raising his middle finger and shouting “No charge!”

My only complaint for the evening was the seating. I can understand wanting to squeeze as many seats as possible into the tiny venue, but in a nation known for its obesity, tiny seats smashed together make for uncomfortable, airplane-type seating that gets very hot and very uncomfortable very fast. Especially for my very pregnant concert buddy who was so close to the woman beside her that when the woman took a pack of gum out of her purse at intermission, she offered us some (Toni’s response: “Not unless you think I need it.”) Seriously, PVCH, take one chair out of each row and put a little breathing room between the seats, it will make for a much more pleasant experience.

Other than that, I really can’t say enough about how incredible The Civil Wars are and how much you NEED to buy their CD and see them in person. If I need any more reason to convince you, watch my video of their “Billie Jean” performance below or check out the other videos from the show on YouTube.

On second thought…maybe I’ll leave them on the bucket list for a second go around.